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Finding a Home

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Finding a Home

In One Client’s Own Words “I don’t think Thank You is enough” I would like to start off by thanking each and every one of you for keeping ABBA, A Women’s Resource Center alive and thriving. ABBA has been a place of comfort, support, and a help in guiding me on my journey to an amazing life… your generosity has helped me and so many other women!   When I first heard about ABBA I was pregnant, with no place to call home. I was scared because I felt hopeless…how can I bring my child into a world when I had nothing or how was I going to be a good parent, would my relationship last? All these thoughts ran through my head and scared me. But ABBA, the women at ABBA, opened their arms, took the time and effort to teach me in things I really didn’t know or understand completely… how to be a good parent, techniques on how to take care of my child properly and how to have a great relationship with my partner so my child could grow up in a stable environment with two parents not just one.   ABBA has also helped me in understanding Christ better. There’s so much more than I was told or taught and when I came to ABBA they gave me the choice. DO I want to learn more about our Savior? The best part about ABBA is they never forced anything on me they let the decision lay in my hands but gave me options and choices which made it a lot easier.   Today I have my home, which is my family, I have a wonderful partner who has also been there for me, we have a wonderful son that God has blessed us with and thanks to all your support I have taken all the tools given to me by ABBA and applied them to my life and I couldn’t be happier! I’m a great mother thanks in part to the work of ABBA!   I don’t think thank you is enough but it’s all I have “Thank you so much!”   More about ABBA, A Women’s Resource Center: Read another client testimony here: Single Moms Visit us on Facebook: ABBA Pregnancy...

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Single Moms

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Single Moms

To all the single moms, whether you’re expecting your first, or have multiple children. Whether your spouse passed away, or you’re divorced, or you’ve never been married. God wants you to hear this message. I have never been married and I was single when I found out I was pregnant with my son. I had so many questions about what he would do without a dad. I had hoped and prayed that my sons dad would come back into his life someday. I had also hoped and prayed that he wouldn’t. I suffered through many sleepless nights when I was pregnant just wondering what would happen with my son’s and my future. “Would he ever know his real dad? Would I find a man who wasn’t his biological father but could be a father figure to him?” These are the thoughts I went over and over in my mind, night after sleepless night. I asked so many people who had been through What I had been through to share their stories with me. I heard stories of reconciliation where the parents of the child got back together and became a family. I heard stories where the Biological father of the child never came around but the child had a step-father who he called daddy. And I would also hear stories where the child had two fathers. His biological father and his step-father, and the child was loved by both. Each time I heard one of these stories, I would think “that could be me”. I would create the same exact scenario in my head and implant my son and myself into it. I compared myself to everyone else’s stories constantly. I wasn’t happy. I felt like I had to know my future and it killed me that I couldn’t. As time went on, my pregnancy progressed and I gave birth to my son. He is now 8 months old and it’s taken me a long time to realize what I wish I had always known back then. Your story is not someone else’s. It’s unique. And God is writing it just for you. As I grew and matured in motherhood, I also grew and matured in my relationship with Christ. He helped me realize that it wasn’t the unknown that was making me so unhappy, but the comparison of other people. He showed me that my story is special. It’s going to happen in His timing (and His timing is perfect). So my message to you, single mothers is this: Don’t compare yourself to other people. God is working ALL things together for your good (Romans 8:28). I was never content in my singleness until I realized that God’s will for my life would be accomplished whether I worried or not. So I’m leaving it in His hands. I trust Him. He knows what is truly best for my son and me and that’s enough. “For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 —...

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Pro-Woman

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Pro-Woman

Recently I went on a business trip to California with my husband. I thought it would be a great time to get away and soak in some California sun vs. Maine sun! We went to the usual conferences and dinners. Interestingly enough there was opportunity to share about ABBA, A Women’s Resource Center even at these events. People would ask what I did for work and I explained I was a Registered Nurse.  And of course the next question was what kind of nursing do you do? I love this question. It allows me to really share ABBA and our love for people. It always surprise me how interested people are to hear about ABBA.  As an RN and working in the women’s health field it is so much more common to hear people talk about women’s rights, and how abortion options flow freely from physicians’ mouths to patient ears. Sometimes during these opportunities I find myself holding my breath waiting for the negative comments to start but typically I find the interest to be welcoming and curious. I explain that ABBA is a non-profit Christian organization offering free services. Our medical clinic offers FREE pregnancy testing, FREE limited STI testing, FREE limited obstetrical ultrasounds (all performed by our licensed and trained RN’s), options counseling and abortion information. Our support services offered include our Teen Parenting programs, Parenting courses, Pre-Natal courses and education,  Abortion Recovery program, Sexual Integrity programs, to name a few! We offer referrals and resources (including adoption referrals and info) for a variety of organizations in our area that help with many challenges of pregnancy and parenting. I like to call what I do Pro-woman. What is Pro-woman? It is shutting out the voices of the world. This includes friends, family, co-workers and sitting down and having a one-on-one conversation with a woman who is struggling. Discussing the now:  work, stresses, stressors, support, living situations, financial pressures, church, spiritual life, nutrition and much more. Discussing all three options of a pregnant woman:  parenting, adoption, and abortion. It is making a pros and cons list and discussing consequences of all decisions. It is giving ALL the information. It is crying, laughing, hugging, praying, celebrating and mourning together. Pro-woman is throwing out all my judgments and expectations and walking into this clinic praying that God’s love will shine through me and his words will be heard. It is sharing hope to hopeless women who may have had one or more abortions and are struggling inside. That desperate need to lean on someone to share this burden and not feel condemned but to know there is compassion.  It is the intimate moment of holding hands with another woman in deep sorrow and praying to a God who cares. Praying not just for her decision with her pregnancy, but for ALL of her- her family, job, faith and courage. We know that there is so much more going on than this one decision this one moment. If you want to know more about us or need an appointment for any of the services we offer, please call us at 207-253-5555 or text us at 207-200-5746 or check out our website.  ABBA is open Monday-Thursday, 10am to 4pm.  We faithfully commit to being a loving, safe place that will always be...

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Client Christmas Party

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Client Christmas Party

Thank you to all the mothers and families who came to our Client Christmas Party this year. We had such a great turn out and were blessed to be able to honor our moms and their children, old and young! For those of you who missed it, we had games for the kids, pictures with Santa, festive food, fun, and gifts for the moms and their children! Many of our client advocates were here as well with their children. We are already looking forward to next year’s party! If you or anyone you know is pregnant or has children under 2 years old and is interested in some extra help with pregnancy options or parenting skills give us a call at 207-253-5555 or text us at 207-200-5746. We would love the chance to meet with you, help you, and have you be a part of our ABBA community!             ...

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The Joy of Christmas

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The Joy of Christmas

Christmas is the time of year when most of us think about holidays, shopping, snow, decorations and all the joyful anticipation that Christmas and thoughts of a New Year brings.  But maybe this season you are worried and scared about what your New Year may bring…  We are here for you. More than 2000 years ago, there was another young mother in the Middle East who also found herself in a similar situation.  She was pregnant…not by the man she was engaged to…scared…what would her family and community  think…would her fiancé stay with her…worried with fears of the future…could she handle the responsibility…was she ready for this responsibility?  What if she had had a place to go where she would be loved, respected for her decisions and choices, offered community support, given support in the early days of pregnancy and motherhood?  Would her fears have been soothed? We want to be that bridge of support for you during a time that can be confusing and full of anxiety. If you are that woman…please call us or text us.  We are waiting to hear from you.  We exist to serve you during this time. That woman 2000 years ago, despite all the challenges she faced, carried that little one and birthed a miracle…a child that was the Savior of the World!  Who might your little one become…? We are here for you. #pregnant  #pregnancyhelp  #pregnantandscared  #ultrasounds ...

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Our Clinic Days Are Expanding

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Our Clinic Days Are Expanding

Exciting changes are happening here at ABBA, A Women’s Resource Center starting the second week of November.  Our clinic days are EXPANDING.   As of October 1st, we have welcomed a second nurse to our staff, Pollyanna Nickerson.  Pollyanna has just completed her nurse sonographer training and is now seeing clients and offering full clinic services on Tuesdays (pregnancy testing, ultrasounds and limited STI testing).  We are so excited to be able to offer you with more days and hours to choose from to meet your needs.  Our clinic will be open for appointments from 10am to 4pm every Tuesday and Wednesday.  Spread the word! To book an appointment, Click Here #ultrasounds  #abba   #pregnancyhelp  #ultrasounds  #pregnant  #pregnancyresourcecenter...

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Thinking You Might Be Pregnant?

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Thinking You Might Be Pregnant?

Thinking you might be pregnant?  You’ve come to the right place. Common symptoms of pregnancy include a late or missed period, tender or swollen breasts, frequent urination, fatigue, and nausea.   A woman might miss her period for many reasons, a change in diet, exercise, or stress, all can cause a late period.  Sometimes, women have late periods for reasons they’re never able to trace. The first step to take to see if you might be pregnant is to take a pregnancy test.  We can provide a test for you if you haven’t already taken one at home.  If your test is positive the next step is to have an ultrasound to determine if the pregnancy is viable and how far along you are.  We offer free ultrasounds to determine viability and gestational age.  An ultrasound is also the only way to determine if you have an ectopic pregnancy, which is a life threatening emergency that requires immediate medical intervention.  We can give you answers. There are bound to be a lot of thoughts swirling around your head.  Those thoughts might change from moment to moment…excitement…anxiety…happiness…anger…  How you are feeling is completely normal and it may change over and over. What is Emergency Contraception? Do I want an abortion? Is parenting right for me? Adoption? Do I have an STI (sexually transmitted infection)? Making a decision might feel impossible at this moment but we are here to help you sort through those thoughts and decisions, to help you figure out what is best for you.  Call us at 207.253.5555 for an appointment.  You are why we are here. #pregnancyresourcecenter  #pregnancyhelp  #ultrasound  #unplannedpregnancy  #abba  #abbaportland  #earnwhileyoulearn  #sti  #freeservices ...

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Pregnancy and Parenting Programs

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Pregnancy and Parenting Programs

In addition to our medical services we also offer many programs to support a mom’s choice to parent. Just by taking part in birthing and parenting classes that help you develop or improve your parenting skills, you can earn items to help take care of your little one.  Our biggest program that mom’s get involved in is called the Earn While You Learn.  Our EWYL program is a free program that is designed to educate and support moms and moms-to-be (fathers and fathers-to-be are also welcome to attend). Client Mentors/Advocates provide up-to-date instruction in a safe and comfortable setting.  For attending class and completing interactive assignments, you can earn points to spend in our Mom’s Boutique.  Our Boutique has items such as infant and toddler clothing, blankets, bottles, diapers, wipes, bath products as well as some books on pregnancy and parenting, and so much more.  You may also “save” your points to earn larger items such as a stroller, crib or car seat. Some of the many topics that are covered in our programs include: Prenatal Nutrition Your Developing Baby Getting Ready for Baby Bonding with your Baby Newborn care First Aid and safety Safe and Healthy Environment Happiest Baby on the Block Ask yourself these questions to see if our Earn While You Learn program might be right for you… Are you pregnant or parenting a child who is 24 months or younger? Would you like to learn hands-on skills to enhance your parenting knowledge and skills? Do you want to develop a parenting philosophy to guide you through your child’s first years and beyond? Are you interested in having one-on-one meetings with someone who cares about your parenting success? Would you like the opportunity to earn maternity and baby supplies? Our EWYL program is not the only program we offer.  We also offer a MomCheck program.  MomCheck is a single Mom mentoring program for women with children over 12 months of age.  Experienced mothers come alongside single mothers to provide encouragement and guidance, help to set goals for her and her family (spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, physically and socially), introduce a network of other single mothers for support, and provide community resources. Please call us at 207.253.5555 to make an appointment or talk with us about which program might be right for you! #parenting #singleparenting #earnwhileyoulearn #momcheck #pregnancyresourcecenter...

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Adoption Option

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Adoption Option

You’re unexpectedly pregnant and you don’t know what to do.  If you can’t stand the thought of terminating your pregnancy and you want the best for your child and know that you aren’t ready to be a parent at this time, then adoption is one choice you might want to consider.  Placing a child for adoption doesn’t seem to be a popular option these days but it might be the right answer for you.  The adoption process has changed dramatically in the last 20 years.  Gone are the days when a woman simply hands her baby over to an adoptive family, never to see or hear from them again – and never knowing how her child grew up or knowing if her child knew how much she loved them.  It can be a process that you can build and customize (open, semi-open or closed) to create a personalized adoption plan based solely on what is important to you. Here at ABBA, A Women’s Resource Center we are ready to help answer your questions about adoption, what it is, what it isn’t and what it can be.  We have the names of reputable organizations and agencies that can help guide you through this process. Women do not “give up” anything when choosing adoption for their baby; instead, they are choosing a life for their child.  Adoption is a courageous decision to put your child’s life and desires for their future before your own.  Adoption can give you peace of mind both for your future and your child’s future well-being.  Here is a story from a birth-mom who made this difficult but loving choice:  “I Did Not Give Up My Baby” Call us at 207.253.5555 and make an appointment for more information about adoption.  You are the reason we are here! #pregnancyresourcecenter  #pregnant  #freeservices  #adoption  #adoptions #openadoption  #pregnancyhelp  #birthmoms  #birthmothers  #adoptionnetwork ...

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The Abortion Option

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The Abortion Option

So, the test was POSITIVE, now what…? Take a few minutes to breathe and calm down. A decision needs to be made soon, but it doesn’t need to be made the same day you find out you’re pregnant. Finding out you’re pregnant can be difficult if the pregnancy is unplanned. Before you choose what to do about your pregnancy, take your time to make a well-informed decision. Take time to research the facts, to talk to a trusted individual, and to think on your own before you decide. Knowing that your pregnant is just the first step, but now what do you need to know? Currently, there are three abortion options available: The morning-after pill (also known as Plan B, ella or emergency contraception), the abortion pill (RU-486) and a surgical abortion.  Each of these options carries its own risks and you should take the time to understand how they work and what complications are associated with them.  Here at ABBA, A Women’s Resource Center we have this information and have the time to sit down and answer all your questions! Determining how pregnant you are is step one.  If you are considering an abortion, it is important to have a limited obstetrical ultrasound to determine the gestational age of your pregnancy to better understand the type of abortion procedure available to you.  Limited ultrasound can also show if a natural miscarriage is occurring (Is my pregnancy viable?) or if your pregnancy is ectopic (a pregnancy that begins developing outside the uterus), which can be life threatening.  Know the answers to these questions! We are here to help you.  We are committed to offering accurate information to help you make your decision. ABBA has no financial interest in your pregnancy because we do not perform abortions.  We are here to help you sort through difficult options and provide you with information to help you make your decision. Call us and make a confidential appointment that will provide you information without pressure.  #pregnancyresourcecenter #pregnant #freeservices #pregnancyhelp #ultrasound Elena,...

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